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Hit Spot Gold

June 23rd, 2010 admin No comments

Hit Spot Gold

Do I carry on with my relationship?

Am in a 4year relationship with a fantastic lady who treats me really well,has a heart of gold and is the nicest,kindest person ive ever met. My problem is that mentally and sexually she just doesnt hit the spot for me. Sad to say since weve been together I no longer bother with my family(nothing to do with this-other reasons) so really shes all I have and I feel like Im the only one who takes an interest in her as her family are generally very selfish,so really it feels like us against the world. Basically Im the first guy whos ever treated her well and she is the first female Ive met who isnt devious,arrogant,controlling or self-centered so just dont Know What to do!! The thought of breaking her heart and me being alone again terrifies me-anyone in a similar situation?

I agree with one of the other answers "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and this lady treats you with such respect and seems to be a real gem, however one always has to be true to themselves as ultimately not only are we deceiving them we are deceiving ourselves. I once was with an ex-husband who was good looking and had some of the qualities that your partner displays, unfortunately he wasn`t one of the brightest of men, often getting his words wrong and didn`t stimulate my mind. whilst at the time of courting and subsequent marriage I felt this was an area I could personally overcome, there came a point when I could no longer go on not being in a relationship where he could not converse with me at any level let alone mine. So the essence of this story is always be true yourself.